anti-Connection

I have a female acquaintance who has difficulty with men. Part of her difficulty is that she focuses on her social differences rather than her social commonalities. She makes it very difficult to establish rapport by insisting on how she is “different.”
Breaking rapport seems rampant in two particular types of people:

Self-centered [...]

Take your time with her

Because if you aren’t taking your time with her, she will take your time from you.
And you won’t like it.
There are no exceptions.
When you accept a woman into your life, when you decide you want to have a relationship with a woman, when you choose her for a relationship, you must ensure that you have [...]

The coin of self-development part 2

Back in the days of yore, that is, before women won the “right” to be admitted to what used to be exclusively male clubs and venues, men could talk freely and frankly about personal matters such as relationships with women.
Now, men are isolated from each other, and subject to possibly severe penalties [...]

Pickup, power

The notion that “pickup” gives a man “power over women” is laughable.
The power of pickup is the power a man develops within himself.

Indecisiveness

Decisiveness is an attractive trait. People in general feel comfortable around men (and women) who know what they want and how to make it happen, and not as comfortable around wishy washy people that hem and haw. But few of us are always on point, and it feels good sometimes to just [...]