Outer game


Pickup, power

The notion that “pickup” gives a man “power over women” is laughable.
The power of pickup is the power a man develops within himself.

Metaframe

What I am going to try to explain is at once really simple, and really hard. It’s along the lines of getting yourself un-betaized. It can happen in an instant. It’s completely internal, and it will invert any congruency issues you have. That is, your inner game becomes more solid than your outer game.
Before [...]

Fake it til ya make it

As I write this, there is a debate of sorts raging back and forth in the pickup and men’s self-development community: should a man “fake-it-til-you-make-it,” or just should he “just be yourself, authentically.” My answer, do both.
Here’s the deal: fake-it-til-you-make-it works. And it doesn’t work. It worked for me, both with my interactions [...]