Leadership


Merry Christmas 2007!

We are roughly halfway through the “Season.” You know, that time between Thanksgiving and Valentine’s day when relationships become filled with wonderful, powerful emotions! Also known as the Dark Days for single men (and women, but for different reasons).
In any case, it’s Christmas! So, Merry Christmas!
Two important aspects (of many) to Christmas [...]

Take your time with her

Because if you aren’t taking your time with her, she will take your time from you.
And you won’t like it.
There are no exceptions.
When you accept a woman into your life, when you decide you want to have a relationship with a woman, when you choose her for a relationship, you must ensure that you have [...]

Pickup, power

The notion that “pickup” gives a man “power over women” is laughable.
The power of pickup is the power a man develops within himself.

Indecisiveness

Decisiveness is an attractive trait. People in general feel comfortable around men (and women) who know what they want and how to make it happen, and not as comfortable around wishy washy people that hem and haw. But few of us are always on point, and it feels good sometimes to just [...]

Metaframe

What I am going to try to explain is at once really simple, and really hard. It’s along the lines of getting yourself un-betaized. It can happen in an instant. It’s completely internal, and it will invert any congruency issues you have. That is, your inner game becomes more solid than your outer game.
Before [...]