Inner game


Relationship Arms Race

When one party in a relationship actively expends time and energy to seize and maintain frame, and reserves the right to dictate the terms of communication, the other parties must compete in an arms race, or be annihilated. In nations, this means annihilation of national identity. In business, being driven out of a [...]

Ineffability of Seduction

Greene, in both “The Art of Seduction” and “The 48 Laws of Power,” explains seduction and power in terms of their outward manifestations. Greene’s method is similar to describing a diamond by it’s facets: One facet facing this way, the other that way, oh and by the way, there are many different ways [...]

Strong hearted

Relationship crises are matters of the heart, requiring emotional strength.
Many times, relationship crises result from a man’s inability or ignorance to properly respond to the woman’s emotional desires. Often, the man caves in, or “collapses” as his heart softens to her pleas of emotional distress and conspires with his inability to [...]

Take your time with her

Because if you aren’t taking your time with her, she will take your time from you.
And you won’t like it.
There are no exceptions.
When you accept a woman into your life, when you decide you want to have a relationship with a woman, when you choose her for a relationship, you must ensure that you have [...]

The coin of self-development part 2

Back in the days of yore, that is, before women won the “right” to be admitted to what used to be exclusively male clubs and venues, men could talk freely and frankly about personal matters such as relationships with women.
Now, men are isolated from each other, and subject to possibly severe penalties [...]