Applied Romance

[Updated]

Some guys I know coined a phrase that is just pure gold in describing the behavior of a certain class of women: Magic Pussy Syndrome.

This is the belief that because a woman has a pussy, she is entitled to special privileges at other people’s expense. Like free drinks. Free dinner. Alimony. Child support. The list goes on. In contrast, most guys I know pay for everything, and at retail prices!

Not all women are suffer from this, all the time. Most women have a bit of it in them, at least some of the time. For example, I met a woman last night who said she had been dating two guys at the same time… except that she wouldn’t “allow” them to date other women… Now this was not an otherwise “bad” woman, in fact, she was a “good girl.” But she believed that because she was a woman, she had the right to behave this way and the men she dated did not. I busted on her this and we both laughed about it.

Runaway bride

I have dated women like this. It is truly stunning how jaded some of them are. I once briefly dated a woman that had been proposed to 8 times, had 2 wedding dresses in her closet (a real-life runaway bride), had been given a large percentage of the down payment on her loft (in cash), and was driving someone else’s truck as a result of totalling her own vehicle (she was at fault). This brief “relationship” was fairly soon after my divorce. Let’s just say I had no idea what I didn’t know back then, but I did know enough to avoid the following…

Pussy trance

The corresponding effect on men who haven’t come to grips with this is the “Pussy Trance.” It’s sort of a generalization of pussy whipped. The difference being that being affected by pussy trance happens to guys that aren’t even in relationships. These guys treat all women like their pussy is magic. Whereas being whipped implies being in some sort of a relationship.

Deal with it now

Remember: this is not a value judgement against women, women like this aren’t “bad,” it’s just how they are. Instead, this is a value judgement for your time. If you get tranced by out chicks, especially those wasting your time and money, learn how to deal with it now before you find yourself in a relationship and thoroughly whipped. There is a lot of information out there from guys that really know their business with women. If you’re already in a relationship, Franco can help you get sorted out.

Update

Joseph South has just released an excellent podcast on Magic Pussy Syndrome. Joseph goes into much more depth on how to recognize MPS, what to do about it, and how breaking a women’s MPS transforms her from pursued to pursuer. Even better, he has promised a Part II to follow. I really enjoy Joseph’s podcasts, and highly recommend them to anyone interested in acquiring a deeper and more thorough understanding of women.